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Clarks Summit, Pennsylvania, United States
I have been crafting and doing shows for 20 plus years. I have 3 children and I love creating primitive country crafts. I am married and my husband is my biggest asset to my success. But I can't forget the help my children have been through the years and still to this day. This has been a true family event. I hope you like what you see. I have made so many friends through the years. They started out as customers an are now dear friends, and that is all worth the long hours that we all put into making our creations. I say our creations, because my husband and children help in so many ways. Enjoy my pictures and posts, have a cup of coffee and some downtime to just relax...and come back soon...from my house to yours, Denise

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Did you ever let things just get to you?


I am sorry to all who has been nice enough to follow my blog, I did something stupid about a week ago. I deleted this blog, why ......well I got a not so nice comment about my "stupid stories" and I let it upset me. You see, I am a very emotional person, I wear my heart on my sleeve...and mean things hurt me most of the time. If I am your friend, I am your friend....and I will do anything for you if I can...but I just can't wrap my head around intentionally mean people. Life is way too short to spend time hurting others. So I took some time to think about it, and decided I was not going to bail on the 48 people so far that has taken the time to join my blog. I hope you can forgive me for letting you guys down. A good friend I have met on facebook, told me to continue writing as she really liked my posts. Well enough time spent on this subject...I need to get back on track and wish you all well. I will write again soon....Hugs to all

19 comments:

michelle said...

Denise I look forward to reading more of your blog whatever it is YOU choose to post about whether its everyday or once a week .Shame on whoever hurt your heart.The last time i remeber we all have a thing known as freewill and nobody is making anybody read someones posts and if they dont enjoy what they have read then dont read but by all means no one should be hurtful to anothers feelings.There are some very amazing women on here.dont give up.blessings and hugs to yo michelle

Denise's Kountry Patch said...

Thank you Michelle, I appreciate your words...and that is exactly why I came back...for everyone that has joined me in my "stories"...I am ok now....thanks again...hugs...:)

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Jacki said...

sweetie i look at it like this we all Follow the blogs we choose NO One makes us. And like my momma says if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it! So if this person doesnt like your stories then they dont need to follow your blog no ones making them! Shame on them!!!

I enjoy your blog and Im glad your back at!

HUGS AND LUV SWEETS

Jacki said...

p.s. that was me that deleted the comment I posted before I checked for typos...LOL and of course I had some...

HUGS

Cedar Creek Primitives said...

It's a ahame that some people can be just plain mean! I am glad that you are still posting! I am like you I wear my heart on my sleeve and get my feelings hurt often,I am trying to learn that not everyone is going to like me, but the people that do are the ones that matter!
Prim Blessings!
Karen

Brenda said...

OMGOSH Denise...I'm so sorry that you had someone so rude that would do that to you!! How terrible! You just keep posting whatever you want to post about, the good people will be back!!
HUGS!
Brenda

Denise's Kountry Patch said...

Thanks everyone, you all are the best...I do get hurt easily, I remember my grams...she would never hurt anyone...I could see the tears in her eyes but she would not say a mean word back...I will look forward to all your visits....hugs to all

Primsue said...

Denise, so sorry you had to go through this. I enjoy following your blog - so glad you decided to keep posting.

Blessings,
Sue

Willow Creek Crossing said...

Hi Denise,
I'm so glad you came back! I love reading your blog also and all the other blogs that I follow! It is too bad that there are people out there that aren't nice cause they make it that much harder for the ones that are! I look forward to our continued friendship!
~Donna~

Robin at The Primitive Hutch said...

Denise, so sorry you had to go through that. Your right life is to short. You continue writing on your blog there are plenty of people that like to read your blog ~ and I'm one of them. You go girl! Glad your back!
Prim Blessings! Robin

My Primitive Creations by Tonya said...

Wow..Denise..I'm with everyones else..if someone reads your post and doesn't like it then don't Follow it. But certianly don't be mean and hurtful.
Guess they must have been having a bad day and decided to take it out on someone else and that's really to bad.
You did the right thing coming back..those who are your friends are your friends..
So Welcome back... :>)

Blessings
Tonya

LibbiesHome said...

I am so glad you came back! I don't always leave a comment, but I have truly enjoyed your blog. Thanks for not allowing one person to ruin it for you and the rest of us who enjoy you blog!

Holli~Where The Rooster Crows said...

Everyones blog is their own....if someone doesnt like it they dont have to read! You write whatever you want and feel good about it! Hugs!

Denise's Kountry Patch said...

Thank you everyone, I am just mad at myself for letting them hurt my feelings. I will remember if there is a next time all of you who do like my stories...I love to create things that will become part of someone's home. And my posts are part of my heart. Hugs to all...:)

Jean @ Prim Crafts said...

Hi Denise, I just started following your blog and found it to be quite interesting, thats why I follow people. I'm so sorry that someone intentionally hurt your feelings. Don't let that stop you from posting what ever you like. It's our choice to follow and read others posts and if its something we don't want to read then its our choice not to follow and that is what that other person should have done is just stop following. You also have the option to block a follower if they are not being nice. So if this happens again you just let your friends know and we will take care of the bully!! = )
Prim Blessings,
Jean

Jessica @BeforeTheDawn said...

Why anyone would continue to read a blog they don't like is beyond me. And shame on them for being rude to you instead of just leaving. I am glad you came back. One bad apple doesn't need to ruin it for the rest of us who do like your blog!

Jody said...

I am so glad you decided to continue writing for us to read! I do not understand WHY people have to be mean and intentionally hurt people. It is a choice to read someone's blog and if they don't like it I say don't read it.
Thanks for hanging in there!
Hugz,
Jody

Denise's Kountry Patch said...

Thank you so much, Jean, Jessica and Jody...you are so sweet...Some people are not happy no matter what they are doing I guess....I am hanging in there...:)

I do have a problem, when I deleted the blog, now when I type it in my browser it says cannot be found...anyone know what I need to do to change it....if you click on it, it does take you to it...thanks.....hugs to all...